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Hi. Call me Jennifer. I was born on the 29th of April. I'm really random. Most people get annoyed cause I change the subject every five minutes. I'm not complicated at all. If I like you, I'd use a pick-up line or just tell you straight up. Mixed signals are messed up, fo' sho. My friends call me super cheesy and corny: I'm known as a fortune cookie [mainly true]. I'm immature, true that. If anything I'm growing down instead of up. If you wanna be my friend, use a knock-knock joke. It works every time. I have obsessions with single gender bands and I think I'm going through a country phase. [my iPod is tired of replaying Taylor Swift or Kellie Pickler] Giggling is like my trademark. [I have an obnoxious squeeky laugh] I can't be mad at a person if they say a funny word. I'm super clumsy and I always manage to embarass myself. I don't believe in blending in; I'm unique and I vow to never follow "stereotypical trends" cause I don't roll that way...[: I make people pinky then middle finger swear. [Cause pinky's don't swear] Neon colors are awesome cause they're like BANG and neon-y but my favorite color is black...go figure.

Oh and if you're wondering, I'm fresh meat to advicenators. It's pretty sick--like sick in a good way. Lol. So far my comments on this site is merely this, "YG, adopt me!" Just kidding. Google leaded me here, and the rest is history. Or soon will be...You get the point. Anyway, I guess I'm here to not only help out questioners but also to be a questionee. [If that makes sense]. I know my advice isn't the best and may be a tad cheesy, but I can't help it; that's just me. If you need help, my inbox is always open for any question [that's appropriate, of course] so don't hesitate. I rarely bite, raWr.

advice

Okay I'm 15 and a girl,I'm a freshman and for the last 2 years my dad's been acting all bitchy and just an asshole at me! >O
What the fuck?!
He says things to me that emply that I'm fucking around with guys! Which I'm not I haven't even had a real boyfriend yet!D:
So where's he getting this from?
He's been bitchin at me lately about having to buy me clothes,I barely have any.:[
Yet he gives my oldest sister money to fix her shitty car every time it breaks down;and he's like don't worry about paying me back.
What the hell?
So tonight my dad and I got in a nother spat about me going to the movies...All I asked for was ten dollars,ten fucking dollars ad he spazzes out at me!D<
He's like,"I don't have money for you to waste,I just want to go see Twilight with my bestfriend god is that to much to ask?
Shit and I'm not even going to eat,since they raised the price for the movie tickets..>->
So after he yells at me for like a good 12 minutes he finally gives me ten dollars,I say thank you and shit.As he's leaving my room he say,"I don't want any unexpected bellys in this house!
D:<
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So at this point I've had enough,and scream like a maniac;yeah I know bad...U-U
But I couldn't take t,all I say is "What the fuck?!!! Why do you always say that shit,why the fuck do you always act as if I'm some whore?!"
He's like,"Don't talk to me like that,why the fuck do you always act like this when I give you advice for your own good!!!"
Okay one,he doesn't say it nicely he completly breaks me down and god I swear.So then he's like,"Answer me!" I'm crying and trying not to say anything so I just tell him to leave me alone.He slams my door and I run to lock it,meanwhile he's yelling at me still;"I don't want any assholes calling me! Fuck you pieces of shit!"
Then he says the final thing that completly breaks me inside and out,he says he dissowns me,and to never bother him again,that I never had a father so just to forget him....So since I have no "father" I just don't care anymore,I been thinking about getting snake bites,my friend's uncle is a professional piercer,he has his own shop and he'll do it for me.My socalled dad said I couldn't get my lip pierced,but this is someyhing I want,and since "I have no father," I'm thinking I will!:)
I'm just scarred that if I do and he sees iy he'll like...I guess hurt me or rip it out...He;s said it before and I just don't know what to do...=_='

Although I cannot particularly relate to you or your dad, I think the reason your father is the way he is is because of past experiences. My mom is always telling me "don't get pregnant, focus on education". She says that because she was a pregnant teen and had to miss out on her life to raise me. Maybe your dad is lecturing you the way he is for your own good. You have to also put into consideration about how the economy is right now. Gas prices were recently so high and many people lost their jobs. I'm pretty sure everyone is financially struggling and since your dad always has to fix your sister's car, money may be scarce. I'm not saying I side with your dad in this situation because I feel he has no right to scream and swear at you when he's the adult but try to picture yourself in his shoes.

As for the lip piercing, that's really up to you. The consequences that comes with it can be severe but like I said before, put yourself in his shoes. Make sure you really want the piercing and its not something you want to do just to rebel.

However, I think the best option is to sit him down and talk to him about how you feel. Let him have his input and if things get out of crazy, politely walk away and start the conversation again when things cool down.

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(Rating: 5) thank you very much and i will!
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