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16/f. I have a huge crush on this kid. I met him at a music honor society meeting at my school. We talked alot and found out that we actually play the same instrument and have alot in common. He knew who I was right away though because he knows my brother. Well, last night, we ended up at the same get-together of a mutual friends and we hung out the whole time even though we barely knew eachother. He is so sweet and cute and now I really like him. I flirted with him, and I got the feeling that he kinda liked me too because he would stand really close to me when talking to me and make any excuse to touch me. Example: he says: "I make all my new friends shake hands with me for 15 minutes." I say: "okay!" Result: Us holding hands for a long time.. haha. Also, putting his hand on my shoulder when saying somthing important, ect. So heres the problem: I have no classes with him, we're never at the same social gatherings (this was the first time), and I am not comfortable enough with our mutual friend to ask him to set us up. Music honor society meets like every 2 weeks only, so I'll see him this wednesday, what should I do to make sure he remembers me or asks me to hang out or somthing? I really like him, but I have to make every meeting with him count!
You can always say that you enjoy talking with him about whatever you have in common like music and ask him if he'd like to keep in touch outside of the music honor society meetings. If he does, then you should ask him for his email address (that way you don't look too pressed to talk to him). However, if he offers to give you his phone number instead or with his email address, you know that he probably likes you as much as you like him and then you two can talk whenever. Good luck on Wednesday! Let me know how it turns out.
(Rating: 5) I waited to leave you feedback because I wanted to tell you how it turned out. Well, it didn't go how I planned, but it went fabulously anyways. So, he didn't come to MHS, but then the next day(thursday), I was standing next to him in the lunch line and I started chatting with him. I told him that we missed him at the meeting and that was supposed to be my segue to ask him out: (we missed you yesterday, want to hang out another time instead?) Unfortunately, I wasn't exactly feeling bold enough to flat out ask him to hang out, but I kept hinting by asking him about his weekend plans and I told him about how I would be mostly free... Well, he didnt ask me out. I thought I had blew my one last shot at him... since I told you I pretty much never see him. So, I was going to respond to you that my plan was a failure but I kept not having time to get on the computer. Then this morning, I was sitting outside of our town's supermarket working at a bakesale, (for future reference: supermarket is right next to coffee shop) and the one other girl I was working with had gone inside to warm up for a minute, so I am sitting outside, alone, freezing my butt off, and who in the world walks by but David. (thats "his" name.) Really, Im not a religious person at all, but if there are such things as signs from god, THIS WAS IT. We chatted for a minute, I mentioned I was freezing, and he says "When you are done here, how about we go over to the coffee company and I'll get you some hot chocolate?" OH MY GOD I THOUGHT I HAD DIED AND GONE TO HEAVEN. My shift was over in like 4 minutes, and then somone showed up to take over my shift, so we went and drank hot chocolate and talked for almost 2 hours untill I had to go. He is so sweet and talkative and we never ran out of anything to talk about and we exchanged numbers, and I invited him to my birthday party in a few weeks, and heres the best part, when I finally said I had to leave, we both stood and for like a half a second, It was super akward because, what should we do, like, shake hands? AND HE GAVE ME A HUG AND SAID HE HOPED TO HANG OUT WITH ME AGAIN!!! So, your advice was great, but I never really got a chance to follow it. but it all worked out anyways! Thank you so much, and I am sorry this is so long, but I am so excited that I just had to tell you. Thank you thank you again!