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Location: Georgia
Age: 19
AIM: ahappebrunette
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Lately I've been very depressed. I've been really happy, then really sad in a very short period of time. It's mostly over this guy that I really really liked and he liked me but I missed my chance. I feel like I'm living in the past. The guy has a girlfriend but I still feel like he likes me. Nothing will ever be the same even if they do break up. Ever night I feel like i'm crying myself to sleep and listening all sad songs that even get me in a worser mood. I don't feel like doing anything fun anymore and usually whatever his mood is, i get in it. I don't know what to do anymore, I feel like i'm just gettting sadder and sadder. Please help! (link)
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There is no easy way to get over a crush, that's why they call it a crush. It crushes your life into a million pieces, and trust me when i say there is not a one of us that hasn't been there at one point or another.
The best advice i can give is the adive you probably don't want. You gotta put yourself back together. Get back out there. You might not feel like doing the things you use to loved, but you should anyway. The only way to get your life back to normal is to start doing the normal things you used to do. You'll be amazed at the difference it makes on your mood. it's kinda like a skinned knee. You can't lay in bed until it gets better, you gotta get back in the game. if you don't you might miss that home run.
As far as the boy goes. The future isn't decided, you never know where you guys will end up. There is no magical way to stop the hurt, and for now i have to give you the most horrible and insensitive advice there is. You just gotta let it hurt. You can't just stop liking someone, and you can't change what is. So you just gotta take it a day at a time. Cry when you wanna cry, laugh every chance you can, and the next time love comes around leap without looking down. I learned the hard way that it's not the love we fear, its the fall from the height. When you're heart is ready, it'll move on.
So for now hang in there, and soak up the pain. It want last as long as you think. Just remember you never really know how alive you are until your hurting.
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