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Age: 19
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So there is this guy Tony I liked him alot we have a big gap in age and he was alittle iffy on it but still liked me. So i told him i just wanted to be friends. I meet this guy Nathan and we have been dating for a while. Tony and I can't talk because Tony came to my work once and i gave him a hug good bye he told me hed come to my work and kiss me infront of everyone. I love my boyfriend a lot sometimes he says things to make me feel like crap but i love him and i know he loves me. I have been thinking about Tony a lot. I feel confused and not sure what to do. whats your opinion on this? (link)
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Well, the details are vague but I'll give the best advice i can from what i know. Being stuck between two guys is never easy, but i think you need to take a step back and and really look at your situation.
First think about Nathan. What do you like about him. His looks, personality, his money? nest ask yourself, How does he make you feel? Sexy, secure, or maybe important.
Once you realize why you love this guy, you need to ask yourself, will i still want him a year from now? Can i live with his faults?
Now do the same thing with Tony.
It's easy to get so caught up in the struggle we end up walking away from what we really want for fear we will never find what we need. It's easy to be with someone because you need them, but being with someone because you want them is far more rewarding.
I think you need to take some time for yourself and decide what you really want, and make your descion. Don't let anyone else make it for you. Even if it's the wrong one, do it proudly. Life happens the way it's supposed to, so be fearless. After all, real love is fearless.
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thank you. your advice really helped
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