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Hi my name is Lety and I am here to help. I currently work full time but like to turn on my computer in the evenings and help anyone in need of an answer(s). Please don't be shy, drop me a line if you need anything, I truly would love to help..........

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I have a really good friend, a best friend you could say, who is really troubled at the moment. It has to do with a guy she really cares about who moved out of state and who will probably not stay in touch because it's super long distance and because he said he doesn't want to talk to people because it'll make him miss being here. It's hard to know what to do or say to her because she just seems so hurt and affected by it. It seems like I can't say or do anything to possibly make her feel any better. /i hate seeing her like this. Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do or say? Has anyone else ever been in this situation? Thank you.

Yes, I have been in this situation and it's TOUGH. No matter what people tell you it hurts. I think this situation will only get better with time. Make her understand that if he left or had to leave is because things weren't meant to be. Make her understand that this is out of her hands and she has to be the stronger one and proove to him & herself that she's TOUGH..........

Love isn't easy to deal with and harder to let go BUT at times only GOD knows why things happen the way they do.

All you can do for her is be her best friend and try to listen to her and distract her as much as you can. With time she will understand and see the situation from another point of view.

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