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15/F
I've never kissed a guy but over half the kids I know have already lost their virginity or gotten way close to losing it. And they're all like "YOUVE never kissed a guy? youre gonna end up like the 40 year old virgin, oh i know this guy for you" or whatever
And I 'pleasure' myself and stuff but just doing that, I feel SOOO guilty like I cant leave my room after.
And theres this guy that wants to do stuff with me and I really like him, and I talked to my mom about how I dont think hes that good of a person to hang around and she told me how my sister lost her virginity to a guy when she was my age.. which didnt really help.
But I reallly wanna do SOMETHING with a guy to know how it feels.. but at the same time I dont because I like being special, and feeling proud, and seeing peoples reactions when I tell them.

I just don't know what to do :[
this is highschool and its hard

If this isn't the guy, then it isn't the guy. Wait until the time is right. If it's not going to be special then I wouldn't even consider it. You may hear it's great and everything but you should think it through. Think of the risks. Also think of how the relationship will end and what will happen. What if you end up having a baby...what would happen? Would it have a good life? Would the dad stay? Think everything through first. I hope this helps. =]

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