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Hi. 17/M
I want to ask girls out but there's just a voice at the back of my head that's constantly saying "Why would she ever want to go out with you?"
I'm a really funny guy and I can always make girls laugh, and I know that's a sign that they like you, but I still can't get rid of that damn voice. Where did it come from and how do I get rid of it! (link)
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That is insecurity, and it comes from life. Lol.
There are a lot of ways that you can deal with this. There's the "Ignore the Voice" method, which is hard. It's really hard to make that voice shut up.
There's the "Booze" method, but you might make an ass out of yourself.
I recommend the "Practice" method. Get a chick friend and practice asking her out. It'll be dumb at first, but it really does help. Then, just take a deep breath and spit it out to a girl you like before that voice can kick in.
It's hard, slightly unpleasant and I do not envy you, but I had to do it... so you can too. ^_^
I promise it gets easier and that voice goes far far away to a land where anorexic girls feast on lard.
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Rating: 5
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Thanks, man! That's a really cool idea, I didn't think of practicing on a female friend. My best friend will totally do this, she is cool like that. Thanks so much!
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