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Well, if you read my other questions, you know me and my "bestfriend" both 'like' the same guy, although i don't think she ilkes him. .. but whatever.
So now she's being a complete witch(if you know what i mean) to me. And she doesn't think so. But i know so, everyone says she treats me bad, but she thinks opposite, that I treat her bad.
We've been bestfriends since second grade, and I don't want that to end. But i don't know if i can handle how rude and witchy* she's been to me. I tell her about it, but all she does is 'backfire' it, and say it back to me. HELP! What should i do ? :/ (link)
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You have two options.
One, take the high road and put up with it until she makes a move that will either repair or break the relationship. This would mean that you just try to work it out and try to be understanding about it. I did that in high school, a lot. I kept a lot of my friends but they weren't the best relationships.
Another move on the high road is to cut it off and let her flounder out there alone. I know that seems mean and that it will hurt at first, but you would probably be better off without that static in your life. I did that my senior year and I lost some friends but better ones took their place, and in the end I got most of them back. They just had to do some growing up.
Your second option is to go the low road, which is a lot more... mean. Show her what it is to be mean to her and slap her in the back of the head. Torment her, and eventually she'll figure out that you weren't being mean before. I did this Junior year. Between hitting people and stealing men from them I was amazed I survived. It's not the option I recommend, but I do have to say that it's the more interesting and entertaining of the two. Ha.
Seriously, option one has two good choices for you... ^_^
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Rating: 5
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i'm guna go w/ option one ! (:
lmao, thanks.
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