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Okay so to explain my situation; I like this guy, alot and he likes me too. He just came out of a 3 year relationship, the day before we met. we've become very close, perhaps best friends with some extent of physicaly contact. We were discussing our situation yesterday where I explained to him that I liked him and I knew he wasn't ready for another relationship but I was ready to wait. He came back with a comment on how he felt special that he was my first kiss and that if I wanted him to be another first (hint hint) then all I needed to do was ask. Okay so he JUST tells me he doesn't want to ruch into anything yet he offers me to have sex with him, my first time. I'm so confused! I know he was nice about it and said he didn't want to push anything onto me he just wanted to be open bout the idea, but this is serious. I obviously said no, but that doesn't change the fact that it was said. I don't know what to do. I like him, buut..
All this first time nonesense could be confusing for you guys, I am 18 by the way, just to clear up the possibility of me being a young teen. (link)
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It sounds like he has a big physical attraction to you, which is good. The first time sex proposition is common in young men. Nothing is tighter than a virgin, and that's just fact. It's very typical for them to want to be your first for that alone.
You said no, and that's very good. I agree with that reaction, but don't kick him to the curb for that. He really can't help it. So long as he's not pushing you for it, he sounds like a nice guy. Worth waiting for, as long as he'll wait for you too.
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Rating: 5
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I don't think you could have said it any better..
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