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This is very frustrating. I might really like a guy, and whenever he starts liking me back and flirting with me and taking me out, I quickly stop liking him. And so I break it off with them, and they hate me because they felt I led them on, but those "dislike" feelings happen so quickly and out of the blue, I really don't mean to lead them on.
This happens to me EVERY single time. I think it might be because I was completely in love with a guy for a few years, and I always wish it was him that was doting on me instead of some other guy. I don't like that guy anymore, but he was the only guy I wasn't able to get.
They all treat me like a queen (except for the guy I loved, he treated me like crap, yet I loved him for it, I was never able to figure him out). It seems that as soon as the guy makes it obvious how he feels about me, I stop liking him.
I hate this. I feel like I'm never going to get married or even find a boyfriend that I actually like and will date for a long time. (Actually a long term relationship doesn't appeal to me at all, but don't think I'm a slut, I've never gone past a peck on the lips, and that was only with one guy).
Please help me. Would it help if I just stop chasign guys for a while? And don't tell me that I should stick it out with one guy because I have done that once and I'm literally scarred for life from that experience from being in a relationship with someone I secretly despised. Also, I'm "talking" to a guy right now who is absolutely amazing, but I just stopped liking him a few days ago. I'd rather just be friends. We're going out this Friday night, should I go with him anyway but make it clear that we are only going as friends, or should I just not go at all (the reason he's taking me out is because I have been giving him rides from school, so he said he owed me. Should I stop giving him rides as well?)
Sorry there are so many questions, but I just feel like I'm a hopeless lost cause.
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First off, go with this guy! Tell him it's just a friend thing, but go. There's no reason to cut yourself off from nice people just because you're having some problems right now.
Now, I think you're right. You should just stop chasing guys for a while. Let someone chase you and just chill. When someone is right, you'll know.
This sort of thing happens to lots of people. Sometimes we just know what we want and can't find it in the people we go after. I went through guys like kleenex for a while. Then one day I just couldn't anymore. I was so sick of having to explain to these guys that they weren't what I wanted. That was when my boyfriend found me. We've been together for two years, and he's perfect. I put him through hell and he still keeps coming back.
Just take some time. Life happens at its own pace.
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Thank you so much! That makes me feel a lot better. I hope someone right finds me soon =)
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