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E-mail: grymer09@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Cashier
Age: 16
Member Since: September 23, 2007
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15/f,

hiiiiiiiiiiiii, theres this boy I've liked for little over 4 years now.

he've never dated and WE use to talk as in flirting ect I was told awhile ago he liked me which is what made me like him.

any way to make a long story short.
it's been four years and I still can't get over this kidd, and he's inlove with his girlfriend.

It's like i don't know why or what it is i like about him, one day he isnt cute to me but I still have my strong deep feelings for him and another day i think hes the cuest thing I DON'T EVEN LIKE HIM BECAUSE OF HIS LOOKS AND THATS ACTUALLY A REALLY BIG THING FOR ME!!

nothing i do helps when i hear is voice it makes my day, when i see him or even am in the same room as him everythings better.


my best friend says I'm 'inlove' with him
could this be true or no? & any advice on getting over him?

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You're not in love with anyone at this point, you may like him A LOT. Trust me, I liked my ex-boyfriend a lot even before we dated... and once we did the relationship was great, after six months it was just plain boring to me and he was really clingy... and on top of that we were thinking about having sex but I just didn't have the feelings for him so we didn't, although he thinks we almost did, which either way I said no... but you may like him now and may love him eventually but you can't be in love with someone you've never kissed, had sex with, or anything like that.

And I'm not saying that in a mean way whatsoever. And the main thing was in my relationship, I loved the idea of him, I just didn't love him... and that might be the same way but we don't know. But I would back off and play hard to get and stuff but don't do anything crazy since he's got that girlfriend... just pretend he's just a friend and he might turn his head, or possibly break his neck towards you. lol jk.
But good luck with him sweetie. :]


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