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E-mail: grymer09@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Cashier
Age: 16
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Ok so I like this guy and I think he might like me back.

Yesterday we were supposed to go to a party together but he couldn't make it.

Anyway, to cut a long story short I got really drunk and a guy took advantage of me. We didn't do anything past making out, because my friends saw and got angry at him. They had to go home early though.

When I sobered up though I pushed him away and was like 'WTF am I doing? Go away' heh it was amusing.

But, how do I tell the guy I like? I don't want to say 'yes I did make out with someone at the party but it was because a guy took advantage of me whilst drunk' because

A) I don't want him to kick his ass

B) I have mutual friends with the guy who took advantage of me, and if a huge drama started it could be awkward.

I have to tell him though. I can't lie, plus he has friends who went so I think he'll know anyway.

How do I tell him? (link)
Hun, he ain't your boyfriend... your acting like you cheated on him and you didn't. He shouldn't get mad, because you two are NOT official or anything. If he gets angry about it, then just tell him that you two aren't dating and you can go kiss any guy you like. You don't need to tell him anything... but I understand if you want to tell him... but its no big deal.


Rating: 5
You were absolutely RIGHT. I acted as if it wasn't a big deal, and just straight out told him in a casual manner. He didn't care at all anyway, he was just like "I'll come next time, so he doesn't touch you" :D




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