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hii
well heres the story its pretty long.
last week was the last week of the holidays and i was chatting to my friend on the net and she just randomly says to f*#k off and that she hates me and never was really my friend. so i'm like really cofused and thinks she just going through some troubles at home so i leave it. later that week i try talking to her again and the same thing happens but this time she starts telling me that no one likes me and i'm annoying and to stay away from her and her friend who are also my friends. i got really up set and cried.Then school started and i styaed away from her as much as possible which is hard cause i'm in her roll call and i'm in the same group as her. Then all my friends started sitting down the back with her and stuff and some of my other friends told me that she was saying stuff about me and saying that i started it all and that she wanted to start a punch up with me and stuff. then last night her and another girl from my school started a convo with me and started like harassing me calling me a sped and just making fun og me basically. i think i'm going to tell my teacher whats going on. i saved the 2 convo's she had with me calling a hoe and stuff.I just don't know what to do about my friends like all my school friend from my group hate me. what should i do
p.s sooooo sorry for how long it is
xoxo thaks for the help (link)
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Hi,
my son had a very similar situation to yours not too long ago. It's basically all about hate.
For some reason unknown to me people get it in their heads that you think you are better than they are and they decide that they don't like you anymore. When in reality, they're the ones with the problem because they feel insecure about themselves. They know they can't tackle it alone, so they tell lies and bring other people into the situation for back up. They want other people to hate you to. Girls are known for this. They specialize in it.
I hate to say it, but like the previous columnist said, the school isn't going to do much about it unless they violate you in some way. It's tough.
I don't think talking to her is going to do any good. I know you don't want to be friends with someone who would treat you like that. She is an obvious bully and your friends have chosen to follow her.
I don't know how close you are with the other girls, but maybe you could get someone alone that you can trust and find out what her deal with you is. That might be a first step. Hopefully things will die down when they find someone else to harass. I feel for you. It's ridiculous.
At some point, you're probably going to have to stand up to her and just have it out. That's a last resort of course. Keep your head up. True friends will follow. I hope I helped in some way.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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thanks.
p.s she apologised yesterday saying that someone had told her that i had said something about her.
xoxo
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