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Photobucket" align=left hspace=10> Allooooo~ well to start off...I go by as Dennise and giving advice is what I'm here to do and I plan to provide whatever assistance I can offer to the best of my abilities.

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hii

well heres the story its pretty long.
last week was the last week of the holidays and i was chatting to my friend on the net and she just randomly says to f*#k off and that she hates me and never was really my friend. so i'm like really cofused and thinks she just going through some troubles at home so i leave it. later that week i try talking to her again and the same thing happens but this time she starts telling me that no one likes me and i'm annoying and to stay away from her and her friend who are also my friends. i got really up set and cried.Then school started and i styaed away from her as much as possible which is hard cause i'm in her roll call and i'm in the same group as her. Then all my friends started sitting down the back with her and stuff and some of my other friends told me that she was saying stuff about me and saying that i started it all and that she wanted to start a punch up with me and stuff. then last night her and another girl from my school started a convo with me and started like harassing me calling me a sped and just making fun og me basically. i think i'm going to tell my teacher whats going on. i saved the 2 convo's she had with me calling a hoe and stuff.I just don't know what to do about my friends like all my school friend from my group hate me. what should i do

p.s sooooo sorry for how long it is
xoxo thaks for the help

In a situation like this, you definitely should let someone know about this. I mean, it's seriously just frustrating enough that your friend and your group are treating you in a crude way without even giving a reason as to why they're acting that way. Your friend could possibly be jealous of you because you have something that she doesn't...but in a way, it sounds like she more of the "coward" (I suppose you could call her that) because she's taking your own group of friends and having them turn against you like some sort of shield. It's pathetic and pointless because she's not going to get anything out of it...but only showing that her selfish attitude has gotten the best of her.
It's good that you're considering about telling your teacher about your situation. You can also let someone you know that you trust in either your school, or someone who doesn't go to your school. just let it out and keep them informed if things worsen.
And all I can say is, don't be afraid of those girls. You are your own person and can find other friends who wouldn't treat you this way. Hey I know it's easier said than done but it's true and it's more of a benefit for yourself because once you talk more to others rather than just that group, hopefully a heavy load will be lifted off of your shoulders. Also, don't come to the conclusion of insulting them back because it's gonna get even messier.
Keep strong.

I hoped this helped you a little! I wish you luck! =3

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(Rating: 5) thanks heaps.
p.s it has stopped she apologised and told me someone had told her a rumor that i had said something about her.xox
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