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Okay, so im a freshman at college, and i still feel like a high schooler, because im so insecure. i always think every other girl is prettier then me, and that has caused problems with me and my boyfriend (we have been together for 2 years) but im alaways scared wen he has a girl friend, that he will like her because she is prettier then me, or more fun then me, because i feel llike IM SO BORING AND NOTT OUT GOiNG enough, so the advice i need is how to boost my self esteem and try and have a better personality i wanna be outgoing and fun to be around! and i just hate being jelouse!!! (link)
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I just wanted to say...I feel the same way!! Atleast about the school thing and I did about the relationship thing. The only way I got over it was with time! My bf knew I hated what I was doing and was having a hard time figuring out how to change it and I think that is what gave me the time to figure it out. I think if you tell your bf that you are trying to figure this out and that it is very hard for you and ask politely if you could try to deal with it for awhile he might give you enough time and enough incentive for you to know that you don't have to worry about that.
The reason I cannot give you much advice on how to raise your self esteem is because I honestly don't know. I am still struggling with it and I think I will my whole life. I encourage you to try many different things and I really hope you firgure it out.
I know I probably didn't help but I just wanted you to know that I feel the same way you do!
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haha, trusssssst mee just knowing thatt someone else is like me HELPS :D .. yeahh i think we both need to just be ourselves but try new things ya know, and i guess we shouldnt wanna b like other people, ahh im just so shy, i guess we gotta get out into the world with no cares or worries :D!! ..myyy emaills rebelbabie696@hotmail.com if you ever need advice & its a gay Emaill but from when i was like 10. lol. but tahnkks so much again for your time, and you did help
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