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Q: okay so in december i'm finally hanging out with this kid who i've wnated to see FOREVER. he is 5 years older then me. (im 14) and he is very popular in my town, so one time hanging out with him, i'll be so popular. and on top of that hes the cutest guy i've ever seen. while me him my 3 good friends are goin to his friends house to burn but anyways now im gross. im ball and hairs a mess and just yuck. i plan on loosing weight, not that i need to just to tone up, then go tanning, get my belly tongue & nose peirced, nails & toes done, new hot clothes, teeth whitend, and TRY and gethair extentions. i dont know where to get them? i love in a suburb in MASS. near salemish. my hair looks like this now. http://z.hubpages.com/u/67398_f260.jpg .. i want it too look like this .. http://www.patricscolorroom.net/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/Hair_Extension_Home_Page_After_SBS_900.JPG .. but not that color or curled. is there any place in MA that is CHEAP & looks good?! PLEASE HELP. and
Okay i'm going to give you the lecture even though you probably don't want to hear it. Probably around 99 percent of the time, at your age, a guy that is 5 years older than you is either trying to use you or take advantage of you. Not to mention it's illegal for you guys to actually "do anything" in a lot of places; which again, at his age, would be what he wants to do. Now if you were, say, 18, and he was 23 that would be a lot better because you have both fully matured.

Sorry, I have to say that because it's the truth even though I know you don't wanna hear it. Go to a ritzy mall and they should have everything; teeth, nails, clothes, piercings (think hard before you do that) and hair.

Also, you should not USE guys for popularity. Bad idea.

im not hooking up with him. so why are you judging? and i would do stuff with him anyways, and if i get the chance, i will. fck the law.

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