Member Since: September 7, 2008
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Last Update: July 6, 2009
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okayy so im 14 and i am a female! so okayy there is this 18 year old guy dat my mom wants me to be with but i dnt want to because i am in LOVE wit dis other guy but i dnt want to tell her dat i like dis other guy cause all me and her do is fight and it causes alot of stress towards me i think she likes dis guy alot for me cause he is my mom's bestfriends son but O MY GOSH i DO NOT like him what should i do or tell my mom???.....thanx (link)
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You're 14, being hooked up with an 18 year old? By your own mother?!
Ok, sorry sorry. But it sounds a bit risky to me, you know how these 18 year olds are.
Anyways, back to the real question.
If you dont like him in that way then of course you have to tell your mom. However Im not sure what your relationship is like between you and her, so it could be difficult doing so, right? But shes your mother, and all teenage girls argue with their moms. Your mom should respect you and your opinion and not continue hassling you to date a guy if you tell her straight that you do not want to and give a few good reasons why.
Honesty is the best policy.
And you'll feel better telling her (as long as it doesnt cause a fight, of course)
In general, you know your mother, I dont. So I reckon that you should decide what to do, but think about the bigger picture.
What will the consequences be?
Hope I helped :).
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Thanx sooo much for da advice ima try my hardest to tell her how and what i feel once again thanx.....=]
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