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So, there's this guy that I've liked for about a year or so and mostly everyone in my grade (9th) knows because of my blabber-mouthed ex-friends...

I really want to go to the dance with someone, so I would very much like to ask him.

Problem is, he's ALWAYS around his friends (the preps) and he's extremely shy. I don't think he's going out with anyone right now, however, but I don't know how to ask him without it seeming overly obvious because, as I said before, he's ALWAYS around his friends.

We're friends on myspace, but we don't usually talk a lot inside or outside of school - would it be alright to send him a message, asking him if he wants to go to the dance with me?

I'm confused and sort of sad since I asked one of my guy friends out about a week ago and he lied to me saying that he didn't have time for a girlfriend (he ended up going out with one of his other friends after I asked him...).

Sorry that this is so long, but I'm really confused right now and most of my friends already have dates to the dance.

Thanks!

It's really better to do it in person but since you're in that situation I'd say the messaging thing could be a good idea. But if you decide not to do that how about getting his number from somebody...? I hope this helps you. =]

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(Rating: 5) I'll try asking him to the dance in person by striking up a conversation because yeah, it would be a little awkward just to "cut to the chase" ask him to the dance. :S

However, how can I talk to him alone in person without it seeming really obvious? His friends are always around him and they will make a big deal out of it if they find out - I hate drama.

I don't really want to call him unless he gives me his number himself because I don't want him to think I'm stalking him. :S lol

Thanks
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