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i'm not a whore,
i'm just confused.
i like 5 boys.
but, i'm scared of commitment.
there's a pro and con to each one of them.
and i can narrow it down to two,
but still.
i'm confused.
help?
1. con; he has a gf.
pro; he flirts and is really sweet, & i've been crushing on him a yearrr.
2. con; we're super close, so it'd be awkward between us if we broke up, and i'm not sure how he feels, so it would be weird if i told him.
pro; he's really religious, amazing personality, his sister thinks the world of him, and i'm attracted to both personality anddd looks.
3. con; he's a senior, so about to graduate and go to the navy.
pro; he's really nice, i can tell he likes me, we flirt a lot and are going to homecoming together.
4. con; he's at college so who knows what could happen with him and other chicks, they have co-ed dorms, and hes my ex.
pro; i miss him, he was my first kiss, and i love it when he's around. his hugs, our playfulness, etc.
5. con; possibly screwed a pig and all his friends hate me, plus he flirts with like a jillion other girls.
pro; he's really nice to me, and walks me to like every class.

if i narrowed it down, it would be 2 and 3.
oh, and i'm a sophomore.
help?!
(:
thanks. that would be great.
sorry for the length. (link)
haha wow the other person who commented this is so dumb...but anyway DEFINITELY number 2 no questions asked, because it doesn't matter if your close, you need to take a chance and go for it because chances are he likes you too and you will be happy together and have a good,loving, solid relationship. don't let worrying about things being awkward after the break-up hold you back from being with a really good guy and doing what you want. maybe you guys won't even break up! from what you wrote, it seems like you would have an amazing relationship, and if you do end up breaking up later on you can deal with the problem with awkwardness when it happens instead of worrying about it now. just GO FOR IT! and don't let anything hold you back. plus all of the other guys seem like they definitely wouldn't work out.


Rating: 5
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