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16/f I'm renee!
Alright well i am sorta "talking" to this guy i really like. Right now, we are just talking as friends and getting to know eachother. Well, we were really starting to click and get closer until my friend told him that i have never kissed a guy before. He still calls me but 3 of my friends have been coming up to me and telling me that he told them that if we ever go out, me not being expirienced would be a BIG problem. He told them he still likes me and he dosen't care about that, but it makes it a little more hard on the relationship if we ever went out. I don't know what to do because i am a junior and i haven't ever done that. I know people might not think it's a big deal, but it is in highschool. If a guy finds that out, they get turned off. It's horrible! I don't know what to do!!! Please don't say it's not a big deal because to me and everyone else in my school it is!!! What should i do? Thanks!! (link)
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Hi,
of coure it's a big deal. The first kiss always is. I know how tough high school is. The pressure can be enormous. First, a little bit of advice off the subjuct. Never tell anyone all of your business. No one needed to know you hadn't kissed anyone before. He didn't need to know that.
I don't know why it should matter to him whether you have or not. If it doesn't matter to him, what's the big deal. A kiss is a kiss. It gets better with practice. Any time you kiss someone for the first time it's different. The only thing I can think of is that he wants to do more than just kissing. Are you ready for that? It seems like you like to take things slow.
I think you should just have a talk to him about it and stop having your friends in the middle. YOu need to know where he stands. Things get all screwed up when you have people in the middle. I hoped I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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