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" align=left hspace=10> Allooooo~ well to start off...I go by as Dennise and giving advice is what I'm here to do and I plan to provide whatever assistance I can offer to the best of my abilities.

I've had my share of ups-and-downs (don't we all) and I'm more than willing enough to help those that ask.

In fair warning: I won't give answers that are "gusshied with sprinkles on top" (or whatever things that that line follows). I will be blunt if the situation calls for it...either you take the honest words or brush it off and go search for a lie~ all in all, it's entirely your choice.
Advice is simply there for people to brood and consider over, not a forceful act.

So feel free to ask me whatever you wish to be answered and the advice shall slide over these keyboards~ ^-^


"If it's free, it's advice; if you pay for it, it's counseling;
if you can use either one, it's a miracle."
-Jack Adams-

"If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it,
If you don't ask, the answer is always no.
If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place."
-Anonymous-

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My friend, she's really cool.
She's really funny.
But I'm worried about her.

You see when it comes to her home life, she just
shuts off. She'll never talk about anything
personal. And she always wears this jumper, even
when it's stinking hot!!

When we were changing for PE one time, I saw her
take of her jumper and I saw lots of scars on her
wrists and arms.
I know she saw me looking, and it's really
awkward between us now.

I want to say something to her.
But i don't know what.
I don't want to say something like "If you want
to talk, I'm here" because the school councilor
has said that to her like a billion times, and sh
really hates it!

Anything?

At times like this, you just have to stand up and let her know that you want to know what's at least going on and why she has those scars. It's definitely tough to ask but you both are good friends and should be able to trust each other no matter what the situation is. And don't worry, even if the school counselor says, "if you want to talk, I'm here," he's just counselor and maybe the reason why your friend hates it is probably because she's telling her thoughts to someone she hardly knows. But if it's you, I'm sure she'll confess and let you know what's going on because you're someone she truly knows and the fact that you're a friend to her.
It's good that you're worried about her, that shows that you really care for her, so if you think it's a serious problem that she's gotten into you should let an adult know if your friend has been abused...or if she's just hurting herself. Don't be afraid, because even if she doesn't want to discuss the first time...she'll eventually tell you because she knows that you're the only person who's worried.

I hope this helped you a little! Good luck! =3

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much.
I read this with tears in my eyes!

I will talk with her, but I don't think I should tell an adult, not yet anyway.
Not until I get the whole story.

But I will, I'll tell someone.
[:

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