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Why would a guy act completely strange and distant around a girl sometimes, then later when she isn't looking he points at her while talking to his friend? If he liked her, wouldn't he want to be less awkward and possibly talk to her more? And if he didn't like her wouldn't he not point to her and not look down at the floor and start fidgeting when she is talking to someone next to him. And then sometimes he doesn't say a word around her, then other times he acts overjoyed to see her. I mean, awkward much? How does one even approach this situation?

Not trying to be mean here, just trying to give any possible answers to your question. Maybe he's pointing when your not looking because he's making fun of you. Or maybe he's too shy to talk to you or make it known he's interested. If you are really getting the vibes that he likes you, then try talking to him. Alot of guys like a girl who takes initiative. Good luck.

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(Rating: 5) Hah, that totally wasn't mean at all. But I am a baffled by this because my friend thinks it's obvious that he likes me but I have some trouble believing that it's true. She also thinks he is too shy. And he is shy, but nice. And we talk semi-often. so i don't know. Thanks for the input :]
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