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Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 2 months the only thing is that her twin sister is always with us. No matter what we do she does it with us. We never really have time alone and when we do her sister makes her feel bad by getting upset about her not being with us and then later apologizes for doing that. I have tried given her and her sister time together where they spend a day together without me but her sister then complains and asks where I went and why I'm not with them. I don't know what to do anymore we have tried making her feel welcome all the time but she turns and makes my g/f feel bad every time we do something without her which never happens and when it does its only for an hour or two. any idea or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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It seems that this twin sister has become very annoying. I really can't understand why she wouldn't be mature enough to know that you need to spend time alone with your girlfriend. I think that you need to have a talk with your girlfriend and let her know how this is making you feel. Honestly, I don't think that anyone would tolerate this type of behavior for too long, so you are not wrong to feel this way. Have your girlfriend talk to her so she won't feel like you are trying to come in between them (which you don't seem to be). Your girlfriend also needs to stop giving in every time her twin gets upset because I'm only reading this and the act has gotten old for me. As long as you respect their time together and all of you have your family time together as friends, it is wrong for her twin to deny you your alone time with her. You are dating your girlfriend, not both of the twins. Maybe she needs to get out and meet some other people, but you guys have to make it clear to her or she will never leave you two alone. Every couple needs their alone time. If you try to ignore it you will eventually start to become resentful towards her sister and then the situation could get ugly. So, I think it’s best to handle it now while things are still civil.
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Thanks i didn't think about it that way before. this really helped me.
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I believe in telling the truth, so I will be honest with you. I also believe that when it comes to respect...reciprocity is key!
Any question that rests on your head is one worth asking.
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Gender: Female Member Since: September 15, 2008 Answers: 113 Last Update: September 9, 2010 Visitors: 10726
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