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This is probably lame and a waste of your time to read, but if you want to, go ahead. I seriously think something is wrong with me. I am usually a nice person, but I feel so frustrated altely. People think Im fake cause Im like nice all the time. I know its impossible to be nice all the time, but I feel like if I be mean, then Im not making the world a better place.
Ugh, I don't know I feel so inferior to my best friend, she has all the guys and I don't. If I sound immature im sorry, its just that I wanna cry. I feel so much like crap. No guys like ever like me, the ones I like are all taken, i don't know its probably me. I was reading this phobia list and I have like every phobia that has to do with love. It makes me so upset, b/c I never been in love, I want to know what its like, but every chance I get with a great guy, I run from it. I think im crazy, i don't know why anyone would want to be with me. It probably goes back to middle school, I had something happen to me, that I can't escape. I have tried to get over it sometimes I can't but sometimes I want to hurt myself in regret. ugh. I notice that im really negative about myself but nice to everyone else. Im losing interest in singing which I love to do. I feel like i suck at everything. I have an ocd problem and sometimes it gets so intense that I feel like id be better off dead.
I know this may seem totally over dramatic, and if i was reading this about someone else Id tell them to calm down. But sometimes thats easier said then done. I don't even know what im asking, and at this point it seems so effortless.
Can anyone explain whats going on with me? I'm scared of losing myself.
thank you so much for your help, I realize that i am totally insane, so no need to mention it.
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Hi,
don't be so down on yourself. Most of your issues are not that uncommon for your age. Everything at this time can feel uncontrollable right now. There's nothing wrong with being a nice person. You just have to be careful that you don't let people take advantage of you because of your good nature. We need people to make the world a better place.
I think you just feel inferior to your best friend because you're not giving yourself a chance and putting yourself out there. YOu're not giving people a chance to know the real you.
When it's time for you to fall in love, you will.
I don't know what happened to you in middle school, but the fact that you have feelings of hurting yourself has me worried.
I think you should talk to someone you trust about it, e.g. parent, friend, counselor. Everyone has feelings of being inadequate sometimes.
You could also try joining some type of organizations to make new friends and do some things that you like. That way you will meet interesting people who have things in common with you. You will feel more comfortable, open up and maybe find interest in a boy that you like. Before you know it things will start to take off.
First and foremost, please talk to someone if these feelings of hurting yourself don't go away. YOu are not insane. You just need someone to talk to. We all do at one time or another.
I wish you notheing but the best of luck,
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I read this and you know you are absolutely right. Thank you for taking the time to answer me. I just really needed to let it out, and I feel much better now. I have seen a therapist it hasn't worked all the way, but I think its a step I need to take and say no there is nothing wrong with me. Thank you for talking me down off the ledge, so to speak. It just feels great that someone was listening. I read my question again, and the stuff I said seems so small, b/c our time on earth is short, so no need to cry over the small stuff. Sometimes I need to be reassured that love is real, I really should have more faith in it. Thank you once again, all the best :)
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