Hey everyone. :) I'm Lindsey, and I'm currently 17 years old. I mostly like to give advice involving sexual health and sexual education, partially because I find it interesting, and also because so many teens aren't as informed as they should be. Please keep in mind that I have no medical training and don't consider myself an authority on any of the subjects which I offer advice on. I do try to provide facts but talking to your doctor is ALWAYS a better alternative to asking someone online.
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My really good friend, lets call him 'SAM' was
talking to me on MSN 2day. We got talking about
nothing... like i should go back out with my ex, shit like that.
anyway, as a joke he sujested me, him & my
bestfriend -lets call him 'BILL'- had a 3sum, so i said "haha, yeah but i dont think he'd go 4 it"
And it went on from there.
Like he really wants this.
Whereas im not sure, i do want it. but, I'm sorta
scared that me & my bestmate wont be BESTmates
anymore...
Please dont say things like "if you dont want it
dont do it"...
because i do want it.
I'm just uncertain...
i need a few opinions.
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First of all, I want you to know that I've been in a similar situation on a few occasions. In each case I went forward with it and had the threesome, and all of my experiences with that were quite negative. Like the person before me mentioned, it can be really destructive to friendships. And for me, a level of intimacy is lost that is so crucial when it comes to having sex. Somehow it just feels impersonal, and I always walked away feeling a bit used and cheap.
But that aside, I know I can't talk you out of it if it's something you really wanna do. It's may be something you just have to find out for yourself, and who knows, your experience could be different then mine were.
I would say, if you're really considering going through with it, try having sex with both individuals seperately a few times. Build up the comfort level a bit before you throw yourself into the situation totally unprepared.
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