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" align=left hspace=10> Allooooo~ well to start off...I go by as Dennise and giving advice is what I'm here to do and I plan to provide whatever assistance I can offer to the best of my abilities.

I've had my share of ups-and-downs (don't we all) and I'm more than willing enough to help those that ask.

In fair warning: I won't give answers that are "gusshied with sprinkles on top" (or whatever things that that line follows). I will be blunt if the situation calls for it...either you take the honest words or brush it off and go search for a lie~ all in all, it's entirely your choice.
Advice is simply there for people to brood and consider over, not a forceful act.

So feel free to ask me whatever you wish to be answered and the advice shall slide over these keyboards~ ^-^


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if you can use either one, it's a miracle."
-Jack Adams-

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If you don't ask, the answer is always no.
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13/Male- I have this friend of mine, we've been friends for years now, and I kinda used to have feelings for her a few years ago, but then realized it was awkward that way and since then, just kinda back to liking her as a friend.. Anyway, she's 13 as well and I just found out she's dating a 16 year old, should i be slightly concerned? I mean, I'm probably thinking the worse, but it's been crossing my mind the last few days and am just kinda wondering if maybe I should be a little worried.. Most of my friends are dating 13-14 year olds.. Could there be a "reason" if you know what I mean, that he'd want to have her as a girlfriend? I mean, if I was 16, I'd probably be looking at someone around the similar age.. Just my opinion..

Thanks in Advance!
Chase

Hi there Chase!

Yeah I have a very close friend as well she's 14 years old, also a freshman in high school, and she's going out with a 17 year old guy who's a junior but they're really happy with each other and there seems to be nothing wrong with their relationship too. But anyway, it's great that you still care for your friend and that you're worried about her safety. You don't have to jump into conclusions so easily when you're not even sure if it's true yourself. Also, just because of the age difference it doesn't necessarily mean that this guy is just going to use her for his reasons. Maybe he really does love your friend that same way she does for him.
But if you're friend is feeling uncomfortable with the relationship or that there's something wrong, then don't be afraid to let her know that you'll be there for her no matter what and that you'll help her in anyway you can. Being concerned is what makes friends that best. =3

Hoped I helped a little!

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(Rating: 5) I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing by submitting feedback, if I am, I apologize, but anyway.. Thanks for the advice, it's really appreciated! I'll wait a while and see how she feels with this relationship, I'm probably just thinking the worse. Again, thanks! Chase.

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