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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
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My ex bf of 5 months has some how ended buck in my head. We dated 5 months and now have been broken up for 5 months. Laty out of know where I keep thingking of him and I have had a few BF's after him but I cant get over him. I thought I was but then the other day I herd our song and I have been crying. Everyone says he feels the same but nethoer will talk to the other because I dont htink he does...IDK what to do because I thought I was over him but now he is all I can think about and it makes me cry
A song, of all things, often takes us back into past relationships. My first warning to you is that 9 out of 10 times, the past is in the past for a reason. Try to remember the reason you all broke up as opposed to all the great things about the relationship. If after all this, you still think about being with him, then maybe you should write him or talk to him about it.
I know that it's not easy, especially when you don't know that he feels the same, but you need to find a way to either move on with him or with out him. Worse case scenario he doesn't feel the same and you then have closure. It's easier to get over someone when you KNOW it's over. Best case scenario, he does feel the same and you all can work through your problems.
The best way of course is to talk in person. But I've always found it easier to write. This way, you aren't rushing him to get back with you, but you are letting him know how you feel. Also it's a lot easier to give him a letter than to have to look him in the eye through the conversation. I hope, no I know, that everything will work out for you. Sometimes life takes us places we didn't expect or didn't want, but ultimately it will all work out the way it's supposed to. Good luck hun!
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thanx I will try. I think that this has been the same advice that i wanted to use but didnt knwo if it was what i should or shouldnt do
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