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(1)what's the difference between friends with benefits and an open relationship? (is it just that with an open relationship, you're actually in a relationship while you can do stuff with other people and with friends with benefits you don't actually have a relationship?)

(2) why would someone even bother having an open relationship when they can just be friends with benefits?

1. The answer is basically what you said--and open relationship is usually when you're seeing someone but are allowed to see other people. Friends with benefits means you guys will mess around together but aren't romantically attracted to one another or want to date.

2. Usually an open relationship means you're romantically attracted to someone...but not enough that you want to date JUST THEM. This person is your main sweetheart but that doesn't mean you can't see other people or have other hook-ups. Friends with benefits is kind of more layed back and about the sex (or just kissing) than an open relationship is.

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(Rating: 5) that's a good way to put it -- "more laid back" thanks for your help
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