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Age: 16
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So I'm 15 almost 16.
My EX boyfriend was my first boyfriend, and he broke up with me the first week of our relationship, and then we got back together like a week later so we were going out with eachother for like a month and then I found out he asked a girl out while going out with me, and was gonna brake up with me, I wont forgive him, maybe I'll`forget. I have just gotten over it and im officially talking to him again, I kinda still have feelings for him and recently he told me its not gonna work out with him and his new Girl friend, I didnt realy care, but I do want him to be happy, So the other day he told me he still loved me and he did the wrong thing, and he asked me what I would say if he asked me out again, he didnt say he was gonna just wanted to know what would say, I said I didnt kow, and to drop it for now. I dont know what to say to him or to say if he asks me out again.???
Kinda confused, plus not many people want me going out with him. (link)
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Hi there!
I skimmed through your question before leaving the site, and after I finished reading I realised I had to answer you before I leave because it's important that you know this!
I can tell you're pretty mature for your age, and atleast you're asking people for help which is great. So consider this. That boy of yours was an immature and foolish enough to go behind your back to ask another girl out. It's good you haven't forgiven him, it's very smart in fact. Because he doesn't deserve forgiveness!
Secondly OH COME ON!!! he's a wimp and a fake for "what if i asked you out?" thing. It's pure b@#$ s@#$ because he needs to grow a set of balls. If he thought you were special enough, he'd have apologised way earlier on, and made a huge effort to see you more, even just as friends, to earn your trust again. He hasn't made a true effort, so why spend time on a such a lazy immature guy?
By the sounds of your question, you are a kind, considerate person. But please, look after yourself first before others. Make sure your happiness prevails before his. Don't date him, you can't forgive and you WONT forget what he did. what he did was unforgiveable ok? Good luck miss nearly-16!
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Thanks a LOT! That is great advice!
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