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E-mail: Wonderlust@weirdness.com
Gender: Male
Location: Iowa
Occupation: retired locomotive engineer retired military
Age: 60
Member Since: August 8, 2008
Answers: 40
Last Update: August 21, 2008
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I just wanted to know if it was weird to constantly be changing my mind on crushes. I mean, I believe I've liked 6 different guys in the past month! =\
I guess maybe I'm just a flighty person, but it just seems weird to me. I used to have really obsessive crushes that would last ages but now there are specific reasons for each new guy I like. It's almost like each of them has qualities that I lack and wish I had in myself.I don't know if this makes any sense, but does anyone know what I can do to fix this problem? Thank you! (link)
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Well, first of all, a "crush" is NOT a romance, so you need to understand that.
As a guy, I must say that I personally think that your "lik" six different guys in one month is just a female fantasy infatuation! You need to stop, sit down at a cafe booth table with a soda or ice tea, and think about this for a few moments!
What is it that attracts you to these guys? You seem like you are saying you see a dozen different pieces of candy and you cannot stop from gobbling them all up at the same time! Yes, that IS TOO "weird", as you admit !!!!!
You do not say how old you are. You do not say how old these guys are. Often females go for older guys because they are more "experienced" and confident in "romantic" situations -- they are also more risky! It is hard for me to give you a constructive suggestion without my knowing more about you, which you should not divulge to me if it is personal anyway! But knowing your age would help.
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I am 15 if that helps and the guys i have been liking have all been around 14-17 years old. Anyways thank you and if you have any more suggestions please add them to your answer.
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