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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
If you are looking for someone to say everything that you want to hear, you are probably looking in the wrong direction. You come here to receive advice and I plan to do just that. I will be 100% straight up with you. If you aren't prepared to hear the answer, you might want to think twice about asking the question =)
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Location: Ohio
Age: 24
Member Since: April 8, 2008
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Ashton and I used to be good friends. I actually liked him more than a friend honestly. He found out and didn't like the idea of me liking him. We slowly started to drift away from our friendship and he began to ignore me. I told him countless times that I do not like him at all anymore (its been over a couple of months now,and i honestly dont like him anymore) But he doesn't believe me.
Me and my friends were planning to go to the mall Saturday. I invited one of his friends, Dan (which is my friend also). And Dan wanted to know if he could bring Ashton. So I called Ashton and asked if he wanted to come, and he immediately hung up.
How do I get him to know I DONT LIKE HIM AT ALL! and i just want to be friends with him now.
please dont say 'move on,hes not worth it' because i miss our friendship and i want him to come saturday like the good old times.
Have you tried writing him a letter? It seems corny, but if you call him, he can hang up. If you see him, he can walk away. It's a LOT harder to walk away from the piece of paper you are holding. Let him know how you feel. Tell him that you miss him as a friend. Tell him that if it's time he needs, then that's fine but just to let you know. Also, ask him straight up.."Am I wasting my time writing this." This way you know what your options are. The answer may hurt but you NEED to know. This will also give him a chance to write you back. Give him a chance to tell YOU how he feels about everything. Good luck hun. Hope all works out!
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i'm not going to write him a letter,hes not that type of person. but thanks for the advice and i'll keep it in consideration!
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