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E-mail: Wonderlust@weirdness.com
Gender: Male
Location: Iowa
Occupation: retired locomotive engineer retired military
Age: 60
Member Since: August 8, 2008
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Last Update: August 21, 2008
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I'm working my local fair this week, and my boyfriend's mom was there too. She said that I had lice and needed to leave, of course, I did. The thing is that I've had more than four people check my head, I've never noticed anything and neither has anyone else (I've been around A LOT of people). Turns out, I don't have it.
I thought she just made a mistake, but then I found out that she's done this once before to one of her son's girlfriends. And she did it just to get rid of her. Not to mention, I heard that my boyfriend took off and rode rides with his buddy and did all kinds of stuff, knowing that I was very upset. I even chopped my hair cause I was so upset, yet that shows that he didn't care very much.
Should I give his mom the benefit of the doubt? Should I stay with my boyfriend, or is he even worth my time? Is any of this worth my time? (link)
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Well, I think the FIRST thing you have to address is the REASON for why your boyfriend's mother does not like you!!!! LICE !!!!
WHAT on EARTH gave her the idea you have lice? From what you say, this is not a physical problem, but rather, an emotional problem of your boyfriend's mother against you!
I would say from what you are saying that she does not like you as a person, as well as she did not like the other girl your boyfriend was with. Your best bet is to talk to your boyfriend and ask him what his mother has said about you, and, what he thinks this is all about. Then you need to ask HIM what HE thinks about YOU !!!!
I don't know. MAYBE his mother is being overprotective? MAYBE his mother is not totally sane? I don't know. I do not know your personality or your boyfriend's personality or his mother's personality. To stretch it a LONG way out of reality, MAYBE your boyfriend and his mother are having an incest relationship? Mmmmmmmphphmmmmph....phhh..... I did not say that!!!!
Whatever, you and your boyfriend are going to have to have a heart-to-heart talk about this, or maybe you should just be casual friends and leave out the romance. But I just do not know. This is like a doctor trying to diagnose an illness over the telephone without seeing his or her patient in person!
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Turns out, he's a jerk and his mom just wanted a reason to get me gone. So neither are worth my time, luckily, I'm done with it all. Thanks!
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