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so one of my friends decided to hook me up with this guy she used to go to school with and that she used to have a crush on him blah blah blah..anyways he messaged me on myspace tellin me this too. when i told him i had to get off he texted me and he was pretty cool..i thought. we had a lot of stuff in common and he seemed okay but when i saw him he wasnt attractive and i dont like him so how should i tell him that without sounding rude. or like make something up lol

Okay, if you absolutely think it couldn't work out, just based on the way he looks, that's your choice. I'd just recommend that you at least get to know this guy as a good friend if it seems like you've got a lot in common. You could find a great person out of this -- Regardless of their looks.

If you really, really don't want this to go any further, just let him know you're not really sure of what you want at the moment. It's not quite saying you don't want to date, but it's saying you're not really looking either. If something happens to come up and you end up dating someone, it happens. Just bring it up if it comes up.

Or if he knew about your friend trying to hook ya'll up, just say "Haha. Do you think that's actually going to work?" When he answers, just say how you're feeling -- Just make sure you're nice. Don't be like "YOU'RE UGLAY, BOY." Just something like "I'm not really into meeting up that way," or something like that. Or maybe that you're already interseted in someone?

It's okay to tell a white lie, just make sure it's something you won't regret saying. Don't say you're not dating at the moment, because that could change. Something that will spare his feelings and still be truthful in a way in the future.

If he seems really nice though, give it a chance. Don't judge a book by it's cover, and all that jazz.

XOXO
KAT.

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(Rating: 5) thanks girl
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