Gender: Female
Location: canada
Occupation: student
Age: 20
Member Since: August 2, 2007
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Last Update: July 28, 2008
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ok. so there is this guy named jeffrey and he and i have been on and off liking each other for over two years. we would talk, become really good friends and usually ending up making out or something then we would just stop talking and eventually he would call me again and the process would repeat. so we stated talking again in march and in may he ended up taking my virginity. he knew i was a virgin and he was reallly sweet about it. well he just graduated and he drinks all the time and does some drugs. and we arnt talking. i hevnt talked to him in a month or so and im really upset because i feel used. i know he didnt use me because he is too sweet and i know he cares about me but im still so hurt and depressed. what should i do?
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hunny, the best advice anyone can give you right now, is "forget him".
i know it's harsh, but that is one of the hardest lessons i've never learned.
being young is about happiness, and the key to happiness is surounding yourself with only people who make you happy. (i mean, for me it was cutting off bad friends who bring too much drama, and only dating guys that really make you laugh-for you it may be something different)
really, I'm sure "using you" was not is intension but guys will be guys, and they're all fucking idiots (excuse my french), and they think with their dicks, not their heads.
best advice about men: "he's just not that into you" -sex and the city-
and it's something that is hard for us to accept because really, as women we're pretty fabulous.
but bottom line is, if he's causing you more stress than happiness, screw that, I'm sure there are tons of guys who would love to spend their time on you. you just need to believe in yourself(ew, excuse my cliche), and be confident that you ARE a good catch, and don't bring yourself down to his level.
best of luck hunny. (oh and don't call/text/message him first. i know it's hard, but it's the best thing)
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thank you so much. that made me feel better
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