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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania

>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

>> Taken since 11.25.07

>> Have been on this site since I was in 7th grade. You do the math lol

>> Very open minded so don't be afraid to contact me for advice

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About a month ago I began dating this guy. He is five years older than I am and has a little girl. But he never got married to the mother of his child. He says that him and this other girl are over for good. He says that I am always on his mind and that he doesn't know what he would do without me. He also asks me why and how can I love someone who has the problems he has especially when I could go out and get any guy my age. The truth is I don't know. This guy is always on my mind. I even dream about him at night. Now I am not the type of girl who thinks about guys before I met this guy I was extremely focused on my career. He helps me focus on my career and he never wants me to stop going to school just because of him. He is extremely suppotive. I feel like I am inlove with him, but I just can't see how I could fall inlove with someone and want to spend the rest of my life with them after dating or just a little over a month. I never believed that this could happen. So do I truly love him, and does he truly love me?

love troubles

i cant say he does or doesnt truly love you, because i dont know him at all... but as far as you loving him, ask yourself these questions =]

- if he doesnt tell you things like that (that he doesnt know what he would do without you, etc), would you feel the same?

- do you think of him oftenly because he says he thinks of you oftenly?

- what has he done in only ONE month, to make you feel like you are in love with him?

sometimes, your mind plays tricks and your heart can believe pretty-sounding words easily.. you didnt specify your age, but it sounds like you're old enough to know whats going on inside you. put aside the smooth talking words, and think about the sacrifices, and the gestures he does for you..and always keep your eyes open =] love can happen in one month, but if its gone in the next 8 months, then it was only desire and lust. good luck!!


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(Rating: 5) I am really thankful that you helped me out. I will look at the sacrifrices and gestures he does for me. Thank you so much.
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