Gender: Female
Location: Seattle
Age: 16
Member Since: July 27, 2008
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17/f
In like the last 6 months I have become really really self concious and not confident at all. I used to be much more confident and I could just do stuff in front of people and now I can't go anywhere without another person.
Can anyone help me this is ruining my life. (link)
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Let me start of by saying that I know exactly how you feel. A couple years ago, I would say anything in front of strangers, friends or peers. Now, I watch everything I say. I am fighting this too. But I have found, through other people, that I view myself completely differently than others do.
We truly are our own worst critics.
What you need to do is focus on the good things. Everyone has faults. The truth is, we don't go around looking for the bad in other people, but for some reason, we focus on the bad in ourselves. If you are feeling insecure, talk to a friend. They are usually good for ego boosts. ;)
Good luck with your confidence,
-SelinaKyle
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