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heyy. im lori and im 16. i am currently in senior high school but i can give really good advice if i know what im doing. feel free to ask me anything: love life, sex, friendship, school (im a straigt A student btw), health, music (i play guitar, piano, violin, and i love to sing), etc. hope to help you guys out! :p

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so i just turned 16 and i have only ever pecked a guy and been felt up. thats it! some of my friends have had sex and ALL of them have atleast made out. I always get the chance to kiss some guy and its perfect but I find a way to get out of it because im sooo nervous. I dont know how the hell to kiss like that! I once pecked a guy and he like opened my lips with him tongue i was like wtf is he doing so I pulled away, then realized he was trying to make out later on haha. It felt so awkward, and I wasn't even involved, which means it will be way way awkward when I am actually kissing back.

I feel so freakin prude and I have to turn down SOOOO many sweet guys because I am too scared to kiss, and theres NO way Im telling anyone I havent before, all my friends think i have because its annoying when they always talk about it. Once when i was drunk I was laying in bed with this guy and we kissed and he tried to make out with me, but i cant remember if we actually did or if i just pushed him away hah. so i consider him my first, but im not sure, i know its sad =/ all i can remember was that it lasted for like 5 secs and it was awkward =p

I know to just go with the flow, but any advice at all?! and also, what if you dont know when to stop since your eyes are closed or what if you miss his mouth should you wait to close them til your kissing? haha any personal experiences or stories are much appreciated! thanks!!

well when hes using tongue, hes only trying to french kiss you (u called it making out but OK). when you french someone, u touch tongues.
dont be scared about kissing and sex. it never goes wrong in a true love relationship. if it does go wrong, then usually its because you guys are not meant to be. sry to sound negative and all but thats the truth. :|

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(Rating: 3) uhmm theres really no difference hahah
thanks i guess
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