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I'm just a 17 year old girl who loves giving advice to her friends, and wanted to try to help more people by further expanding her advice.

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So i like this guy, he's going into high school and im going into 8th grade.(no problem, im going to be going to the same school) He took me to the 8th grade prom when my other plans cancled. He is even in my band class at school. He always listens to my problems and i help him with his. Both of us have shared about stuff normal people wouldn't and I trust him like he was my brother. We have a billion things in common and he is definately the sweetest guy i've ever met. My mom likes him too :) I talk to him about every day on myspace but i have no idea how to talk to him in real life! How do i know if he likes me? Most importantly, how do i be myself around him if i don't know what to do?

I believe the best way to find out if this guy likes you in the way you're hoping for would be to actually speak to him in person. Of course, then comes the problem of not knowing what to say! The way it seems to me is that you two already are close enough that actually sitting down and talking in person wouldn't be as hard as you think. Next time he shares something with you that you don't think he would tell other people, try asking if he wants to talk about it over the phone. Phone calls are definitely the next step to your relationship. After that, asking to meet up somewhere to discuss something, or just to hang out will be a piece of cake!

If you want to make things a little less awkward, try asking him to hang out with a group of your friends, and tell him to bring friends along to. You wouldn't be able to discuss things that are secretive, but it's a good way of breaking the ice so next time you two can hang out alone!

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(Rating: 5) thanks a bunch!!!
haha i feel loved =D
ill definately come back to you
if i need anything else :)
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