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sara. 19. oh. i'm disappointing. most mornings i don't want to wake up, but it happens eventually. i love to sleep. i usually never remember my dreams, although i try to. hopeless romantic and i hate it. i never know what i want. i'm not satisfied. i'm a bitch to my parents. i say that i hate them often. i don't. i'm a brat. my family is the best there is. i regret, often. i love music. who doesnt though? i appreciate it. i never want to grow up. the fact that i can't help this scares the fuck out of me. i believe in god. i'm not christian even though you will see me fondly wearing a cross. i don't do drugs. i don't drink. although i probably will as soon as i hit 21. i play the guitar. i wish i could play the drums and the keyboard. designing things is fun. i try and give good advice. ask me anything. i will try and help. i like helping people. i love you all. xxx
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My mom is constantly letting my older brother who is 24 do whatever he wants. Let me also tell you that I am 21 so saying that he is old enough to do those things won't fly. I do well in school, he is lazy won't do anything. He convinces my mom to do his homework for him and when I ask for help she claims she doesn't have time. I work my butt off to pay my bills, car payment every month, and do what I can around the house. HE doesn't have to pay anything! He has two credit cards which he is not paying, a truck payment, and a cell phone bill. HE has a job and uses his money to buy cds. What does my mom do pays for everything of his and when I have a little trouble managing one of my bills, she goes crazy when I ask if she can pay a 10 dollar payment. She also say she will do something then won't when it comes to me but when it comes to Ronnie she will shift the world. He gets sick, she pampers him, when I get sick, she thinks I am faking. I am really sick now and she is making me go to work. When Ronnie gets sick, he can just call off whenever he wants. I a convinced the way she raised him, is the way he is. She ignores, never listens, and doesn't care about any accomplishments I achieve. I got a book published that will be going in the stores next month and she says "ok". Never says happy birthday to me but goes all happy for Ronnie.
what the hell. anyway. it sounds like its about time for BOTH of you to move out of your house. honestly it sounds to me like you haven't done anything that a mother wouldn't love. i'm not sure what is going through your mom's mind which is why i have no idea what to tell you about the way she is acting, but it sounds to me like you need a life of your own, maybe if she sees that you don't NEED her, she will want you to be near her. i really honestly don't know why she would be acting this way. it is very immature, and very hurtful for you. anyway the only thing i think you are doing wrong is sticking around to hear her complaints. also congratulations on writing a book! damn. that is huge! kudos love.
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well I guess there is no true advice. I would move out but my bills are so high I can't afford to move out with all my loans I am paying back on college. I will wait and see. I actually have three books published. Two are on lulu.com called The Leaf: One Fallen Heart and a Burning Desire and Avengement of Glory.
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