Gender: Female
Member Since: June 15, 2007
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Last Update: December 6, 2011
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Okay,
I started dating my boyfriend almost 3 months ago, We've had sex only 6 times. I have a high sex drive and too me 6 times in 3 months is not good. I spoke to my boyfriend about how it bothers me that we lack sexual contact. He told me that he doesn't like sex and that he's not like other guys who like to have sex almost every night. Also, No matter how much I tease him it doesn't seem to work... He told me that he wants to try male enchantments or viagra but he's only 23 years old. :( Is there anything I could do? or Does anyone know what or why he might be saying this or feeling this way? (link)
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I actually think that its really sweet of him to not be a lil play boy. I wouldn't be too worried medically wise, but it sounds a bit like he is embarressed or thinks he isnt good enough. You should really boost his ego all the time. Tell him he is smart or funny. Just simple compliments, like he is adorable or you love him or what have you. Then, kiss him. Seriously, you can't just pressure the whole sex thing, when done right, the situation should just happen. So sit on a couch, watch a movie, and kiss his neck, his chest, his hair, his face. Make him feel like you love him. This could lead to sex, it may not, but whatever happens, be patient. You will be glad you did when he is ready :)
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