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Q: 16/f
im bisexual and i admitt im not a virgin
i have different feelings for guys and girls
Guys: it feels better to do it with a guy than a girl
Girls:im more attracted to a girl than a guy and they turn me on more than a guy does

for the past 3 yrs ive been bi and for the past 1ish years its been getting awkward for me, lately everytime i see a naked guy i have to cough out the gag so i wont affend the guy. AND its been getting harder and harder to be turned on enough for a guy even to get in me in the first place...
the question is am i a future lesbo?



I usually don't answer questions like this because I have a tendency to see things as black or white. Just the other day I saw a similar question and here was my advice. I have noticed that mankind is the only species on earth that has sexual relations with it's own gender. We are also the only species with a free will. Notice that all birds of the same species build nests the same way even if the young birds are removed from their parents. A large dog will take food from a smaller dog and have no conscience if the smaller dog dies because of it. They are prewired that way. They have no choice. We on the other hand do have choice. We also understand the results of a poor choice. If you rob a store you o to jail. If you go to Harvard law school and get a degree you get a high paying job. For every choice there is a consequence both good and ad. You have chosen to experiment in an area of free will that now has become close to an obsession. The longer you continue to go down that path the harder it will be to get off of it.Man was never created to have sexual relations with it's own gender. Yes you may enjoy it but that doesn't make it right. Using drugs is fun at first but addiction and overdose are two very real outcomes if the behavior is continued. You will NEVER feel right if you continue to act in a way you weren't designed to act.

Thx but you didn't have to tell me this I am a Christian and I know what the Bible says about doing things with the same gender, but thx anyway...
...I see things as black and white too

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