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I am currently a college student. I am studying Psychology and plan on getting my PhD or PsyD to become a counseling psychologist. I am also minoring in music because I love to sing. I have been singing and playing the piano since I was about 5 years old. I also love to ride horses. I have the most perfect boyfriend in the world and I love him so much.

I have always had a rough life growing up and that is why I am going to be a Psychologist because I think I can help people cope with the things that I had to deal with.

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Occupation: student: Psychology major and music minor
Age: 20
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i lost my confidence the summer before 7th grade. right now this is the summer before i go into 11th grade. i really want my confidence back. i lost it when a couple of people called me ugly and i really let it get to me because i agreed with it. but before that summer before 7th grade, i had tons of friends and alot of guys liked me. the thing i miss the most is me, the old me when i acted myself in public. now i have to step out of my shell after hiding for so long. im really scared, please help. (link)
I had the same problem with losing my confidence. You just have to learn not to care what other people say or think and remember that everyone has flaws. Those people that called you ugly most likely have a problem with their self confidence or else they wouldn't have called you ugly and by doing that it makes them feel better about themselves. So next time someone does something like that say think or say something like just because you have no self confidence doesn't mean you should go around putting people down to make yourself feel better. Don't worry about it, I'm sure you are gorgeous on the inside and out. Hope I was some help.


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