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My name is Nikki� and I love to help people with there problems. I wont give you cheap not-really-caring-answers. (= I'll make sure to give you the best answer you can ever get! Well, heres a little about me, I love to smile :D its my favorite! Singing,writing, and acting are my life. If you have any questions that are privite or personal you can send me an IM from Ask me dudex3 (which i made JUST for advicenators) by the way, i will answer any questions, no matter who werid/embarrising/sick or personal! (= thanks for reading. Please ask a question if you need help!
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I have been an advice coloumnist on this site for almost three years. I am very happy that I have helped so many people and yet I am unhappy as a person. I have an empathy level for people that is off the charts. It makes me literally sick to my stomach when I see someone in absolute pain. I care more about a strangers well-being than my own. I am successful as a writer and college student but I can't figuare out why I am not happy with myself. I had many boyfriends since the sixth grade, alot of which I savotaged even though they were really great guys and some that were not. I find myself at a crossroad unable to decipher my own feelings. Why am I so unhappy? When I look at my life, I should be thrilled, not unhappy.
Well maybe you should take a brake from helping others. It might help you! Go shopping with freinds, visit your mom, do something exciting. And theres probably something bothering you. You might not know it. Maybe you should release your feelings out, you might bottle your feelings without knowing it. And if you like helping people try doing something that is helpful to other and exciting for you (= like a two mile bike ride that helps raise money and reasearch for cancer.
Be happy k,?
- Nikki™
(Rating: 4) The thoughts are nice but I already do this stuff and I am unhappy so I don't think continuing to do them will help me. Thanks for the thought though.