My name is val, i just graduated high school. I have the best boyfriend named Zack, and im 18 years old. I'm going to junior college and will eventually major in speech pathology.
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Ok, well after a long and complicated story streching out for months, me and a 'friend' are barely friends.
We used to be best friends, now we'll rarely talk on the internet, and if we do it's forced and awkward.
Anyway, I try and move on, and I will admit she's not as petty as she used to be.
However she still has this constant need to show me I'm not welcome in her friendship group (Who were my friends at one point, and a few of them were friends with me before her) as well as try and compete with me over who has more friends.
In a few days there is a meet up with a few people, because a couple of people from town are in our town. People they know have been invited and I was one of them, as well as my now "distant" friend.
Anyway cut to the chase, my "distant" friend invited randoms from her friendship group. Most, who dislike me a lot. Now I don't think I'm THAT special, and her sole purpose in life is to make uncomfortable, however at the same time it makes me wonder what her intentions are. Only one of her friends has spoken to these girls from out of town, only a couple of times. She doesn't really like one of them either. Distant friend's other friends have never even spoken to her before. It makes me wonder why she would invite randoms to a special gathering held for 2 people.
Also, she keeps banging on how her friendship group are going to have a super special awesome sleepover party, and how much fun they're going to have, and keeps hinting and making it obvious that me not being invited is a big thing. Even if we change topics, she'll go back to this "awesome sleepover" and she keeps asking if I'm still going to the meet up.
Basically, she's trying to intimidate me out of going to the meet up. And it's sort of working. I was pretty excited to go, but because all these people who dislike me are going, I'm bummed out and don't want to go. Even if I did go, the whole day would be spent in awkwardness and I wouldn't have fun.
So my question, should I fall for her tactics and stay home, or should I suck it up, go to annoy her and spend the day awkward and misrable? (link)
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Well, I'm kinda in the same situation, and the first thing I have to say is do not let her ruin your fun! You want to see these friends, not her. Spend time with them, and you don't have to pay attention to her. If they say anything that upsets you, don't let it show, because that's what they want. I can tell you can't wait to see these friends, so why let this brat ruin it for you? How long will they be in town? Because if it's not too late maybe you could plan something without this girl and her friends? All I can say is don't let one girl (and her friends) let the joy of ruining your time. These girls don't even know who you're meeting up with, so I really don't get the point of them going. Whatever these girls say, don't let it bug you! You're there to catch up with old friends and the last thing you want to do is have a bad time because of what others say.
Good luck, and have fun!
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Rating: 5
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Thanks :] that's exactly what I needed to hear
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