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Last Update: July 13, 2008
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ok so a while back, i asked my boyfriend if he'd have sex with me and it kinda drew him back, and he didnt say anything. it kinda hurt, cuz im allergic to rejection. :(

anyways, he told me later that week that he wanted to try again so i know hes interested. but the thing is i dont really know how to get it started. i dont like any type of oral sex and the only foreplay ill try is being felt up. but i really hate my body. im not fat or anything, its just im FLAT. i have no bust and i hate taking my shirt off. so im just asking, like, how would that work in bed? and ALSO, what would i need to do to ask him? and how do i prepare myself? thanks! (link)
Girl, whatever you have this guy should be HAPPY that you let him see it. You are fine the way you are, I'm sure. Girls do not have to be a Double-D to be beautiful and desired. So, there souldn't even be a problem there! It'll work out with that, once you learn to love yourself. And if this guy doesn't like, he is shallow and not worthy of you.

To prepare yourself, it would be best to use some kind of lubricate. And feel sexy in your own skin. And make him wear a condom or something, and don't make him force you into something you don't want to do (like oral sex-you said you don't like that, you don't have to do it even if he asks). I hope I helped and good luck!


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