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I came to this site by chance and now that I have arrived I hope I can be of some help. I'm known to be blunt but my bark is worse than my bite:-). I believe people deserve honesty and not to just be told what they want to hear all the time so that is my approach. I have had a lot of ups and downs through life and I have turned a lot of negatives into positives. I have also learned a lot about the nature of people through my trials and hopefully I may be able to help someone help themselves to continue living a happy and prosperous life. Thanks for the opportunity!

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So me and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary is coming up. We're both 14. But in a very mature relationship. We mess around and stuff; but out of love. We want to get married and all that good stuff. This isn't a stupid immature young teenage relationship, trust me.

So, I wrote a 365 reasons why I love you, memories, etc thing. I was thinking of making it into a scroll but that wouldn't be very cute. So I thought of like a binder/scrapbook type thing. But I'm trying to think of anything else I could do with it. Any ideas?

And besides cooking, buying him clothes, etc. What else could I do for him? Make it age appropriate. He wants a handjob and we are going to mess around more. So I've got that covered. But any other ideas about what I could get him or do for him. I kind of want to surprise him because I know he has a ton of surprises for me.

Thanks in advance!

I am talking about just being yourself and allowing things to progress naturally, I wasn't sure of your views because your question sounded like you were trying too hard to enjoy all of the physical aspects of being grown when you were probably referring to your emotions as not being puppy love. Is that right? When I said play, but play responsibly I meant trying to abstain from behaviors that can lead to sex. Oral sex and hand jobs are in the same category to me because arousal is involved and pretty soon you just want more. In my view, the thought of something is better than the act because the excitement lasts longer so you don't even have to go that far, but I am not trying to tell you what to do. You are on the right track and I am sorry if I misread your original comment.Thanks for the response! Also, how about a giving him a gold/silver necklace or bracelet with a symbol on it that is special to you or symbolic for you both or a watch to symbolize all of the times you had together? Too corny?:-)

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(Rating: 5) Ohh okay. Yes, you are right now :D. I get what you are saying though. We agreed no sex. Aww yeah that's cute. I'm doing that but with a promise ring. Not corny at all!
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