Member Since: June 29, 2008
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Last Update: July 13, 2008
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i have this state of mind that makes me view and act differently against myself. like i feel like i'm an awkard, less than adult, not special, not my best, and anxious. i want to be myself and my best but because i was hurt in the past, i can't get past what i feel and i feel incompetent to doing things. i set myself up for failure. is there anyway i can stop thinking in this kind of way? (link)
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Well don't start to think you are better than people like someone else said. But I really doubt you will :)
I feel this way a lot too. I look around and see all the people who I think are better than me. I know who made me this way. That's what you should do. Figure out the event or person that has hurt you and made you feel like this. Then seriously think. Ask yourself questions like "Why do I still let this control me?" and "How do I let myself move on and try to heal the hurt?" and "How do I make myself realize that I AM good enough?" Then get some real answers!
Also start to mentally encourage yourself! "I can SO do this!" Say that to yourself every time you're faced with something you think you will fail.
You are good enough! Come on and try it!
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