I'm not very into making an elaborate profile. So that's why my profiles nothing :)
Well my names Matt, im 15 live in US. (My now ex) girlfriend always talked about going on advicenators and i thought id check it out and from my feed back i seem good at it =)
So just drop me a question whenever you want I'll answer it to the best of my ability.
I specialize in relationship problems, weather it's your bf/gf, best friend, argue with parents ect..
I'm also pretty knowledgeable about girl issues (ex gf lol) so I can answer those too.
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I have known my ex boyfriend since we were 13 years old (I'm now 22). We dated for 5 years off and on and we were very much in love. We broke up due to the fact that we have always lived very far from each other. Throughout college we kept in touch. I recently just graduated and he came to my graduation (his cousin graduated from the same college as me so he was there really for him). After seeing me at graduation he started to come back in my life more and more. He has been calling me and speaking to me everyday. He just got out of a serious relationship so he would mainly be calling me for advice on his recent ex girlfriend. I am currently in a serious relationship and although I am extermely happy I still have feelings for my ex. He claims he still has feelings for me too but he keeps going back and forth on whether or not to get back with his ex or not. I feel lost and I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend. I recently told my ex that I couldn't talk to him about his ex anymore because I knew I wouldn't be able to give him advice when I feel like my own feelings for him would get in the way. He said he wouldn't bother me about it anymore. What should I do? Should I stop talking to him altogether? I have already told him how I feel but I feel like it hasn't accomplished anything. My current boyfriend and I are very close and I try to be as honest with him as possible. Lately I know I have been distant with him and that I run the risk of losing my current relationship for someone who might not even want to be in a relationship with me.
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When you get very close to some one and then you break up for reasons of living to far away, you still harbor feelings for that person. When the ex gets back in the picture its hard because all those old feelings you felt with him are still there, and rush back to you.
You should see weather your ex actually wants to get back with you, or if he really just wants to get back with his recent ex.
If he doesn't want you theres nothing you can do even if you like him more then your current boy friend.
But if he wants you back then my advice would be to make 2 lists.
One of pros of both your ex and current bf. One of cons of both your ex and current bf.
This will help you see whom you like better, try to think future wise also. Will this guy be good with kids (if you want any) Is he marriage material? Steady job?
Hope it helped
!InsaneChildz~
15/m
P.S. I know im only 15 what do i know anyway =]
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Your advice makes sense! Very wise for a 15 year old!
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