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Okay. My first boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. We are both 14. While on the phone one day he told me he loved me. He's told me that a few times already now. The last time I felt guilty so I said "I love you too." But I've been thinking and while I think he's very amazing and I couldn't be happier going out with him, love is a strong emotion and I want to be sure it's love. There's nothing wrong with him or our realtionship I just don't know if I'm ready yet. Do you think it's love and I should tell him I love him? (link)
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Hey! Well one thing you should consider is that the faster you speed things up, the ultimate conclusion is that the relationship gets boring faster. It's dependant on the people in the relationship, but if you have to question if you love him then that means you probably don't, when your in love with someone you know it, you feel it.
Maybe you should tell him that you like him alot, enough to want to take it slower so things stay fresh, so you can save that I love you for a very romantic moment.
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Good luck
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Thanks :) Slower probably will be better. Thanks for your help.
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