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I am not harsh, rude, or disrespectful but I am going to tell you the truth because you are asking for that. If you want a lie or support that you know is invalid because you question it yourself, please don't get mad at me for the truth because that is what sets us ALL free!! Peace, Venom



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I am a 17 year old girl, and ever since I was 14, I felt like I have been falling down a hill. It seems like it gets worse month by month. I feel bad about myself a lot, but I randomly feel better. But then a week later I am back where I started. I have no warning about when I will feel bad again. I want to know if so much pain is normal for a teenager.

I used to cut when I was 15, but I do it extremely rarely now. Starting this past March, I wasn't eating properly because I was trying to lose weight. I got down to eating between 500 and 1200 calories a day, depending on the day. When I was 16, I almost killed myself, and once this year I tried alcohol for the first time.

It just seems like I am falling and being so much worse than I ever was. I just want to know if feeling like this is normal (even if what I did isn't normal) or if I should get this checked out. (If that is the option, do you have any idea what might be wrong with me?)

Thank you for all your help in advance, and I look forward to reading your input.

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First, I am going to tell you that I am so sorry that you are going through this, girl and that I want to help you, as these should be the best friends of your life!

I am not able to say if it's normal or not, but I can say that I am seeing more of it on a daily basis. I really do think that you should get this checked out. Something is going on internally with you and I respect you for identifying it and seeking help even to the point of asking if you should get it checked out. This shows me strength within you! So, this tells me you can get through this thing, with help girlfriend. No one on this site can say what's wrong unless they are doctors, and see you. Most will say depression. I am not going to say depression, because it could be anger, frustration, confusion - all of these things help lead up to depression but without really knowing the real root of it,it's hard to say what it is. It could even be a mental disorder, requiring medication. It could be something hereditary even. I will say this, I will give you my email address,you can email me and tell me everything you want to get out, I don't care how long it is, I will read it and answer you, I promise you. Sophia_pettus@yahoo.com

My advice, is talking first with your parents to let them know that you're going through doing, asking them to make you an appointment for help. Next, you can send me an email message and let it out!! and we can talk from there too. I will be here for you cause you need someone there for you in addition to your parents, doctor and/or counselor.

I am also praying for you as soon as I post this response to you. Again, I am asking and supporting you in getting this checked out miss lady so that you can smile again and realize the world is yours and it's waiting on you to grab a hold of it!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for your nice message. I will definitely save your e-mail address so that I can write to you. It means a lot to me that you are willing to do this, so thanks a lot! Have a great day. :)
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